Party City has a wonderful assortment of party goods. My advice is just don't overuse the printed themes. Choose one element, such as a napkin or party plate, and use it to inspire other solids in your party. We used mature colors of gold and green to complement and not compete with the strong decor in the room.
We used elegant golden table cloths for the main buffet table and real glassware and gold chargers to present the food. We took photos from throughout the celebrant's life to accent our tables and buffet.
A custom cookie cake was created and shipped to Maryland from a bakery in Atlanta, GA. Another small detail were custom made chocolates in our color scheme with white and green chocolates with the number 80.
Here are a few more general shots from the party!